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Part 2, Approaching the suicide upsurge with honesty and resolve.
Official Catholic newspaper of the Diocese of Fall River, Massachusetts

(Continued from last week.)
How should we respond adequately to this suicidal surge? First, not only should we not duck the issue but commit to address it with resolve, perseverance and honesty.

This involves, second, confronting, exposing, and eradicating the culture that promotes and even glorifies suicide. There's a growing pro-suicide movement that has now made it legal in eight states and several European countries for people to murder themselves. Euphemisms abound. It's called "death with dignity," or "physicianassisted dying," even "euthanasia" (good death), but it is suicide.

There are well-funded movements that glorify deaths like Brittany Maynard's and that are seeking to extend its legalization as if suicide is a good thing and a marker of cultural "progress." The culture of death underpinning physician-assisted suicide, however, abets suicide in general. No one should be surprised that physician-assisted suicide has led to a 6.3 percent increase in total suicides in the states where it has been legalized, considerably higher than the general five percent increase since 1999. It's schizophrenic to try to prevent suicide on the one hand and promote it on the other.

Third, we should know the warning signs and risk factors. Suicide is a "cry for help," but one that many hear only after it's too late. We all have to get better at detecting the signs. Most, but not all, exhibit warning signs: 46 percent have a history of mental or emotional illness, and additional 44 percent a history of substance abuse, but that's retrospective, not predictive. It's normally a combination of many factors, triggered by a setback or a sense of hopelessness. When we deem someone suicidal, we should not leave the person alone. Rather we should remove as much as possible the means that one could use to take one's life and then take the person to an emergency room, seek help from a mental health professional, or call the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (800-273- TALK). Fourth, we should promote a culture of resilience that helps people deal adequately with the risk factors. At a macro-level, these involve trying to strengthen family financial security and housing stability, covering mental health conditions and suicide care in health plans, promoting connectedness with peers and the community especially among teens, reducing access to lethal means, and especially among teens, reducing access to lethal means, and training people in coping and problem-solving skills, especially in the family.

One of the biggest resilience factors is, unsurprisingly, the regular practice of religion. A 2016 study by the Psychiatry Journal of the American Medical Association showed that women who participate in religious services at least once a week are five times less likely to commit suicide than those who never participate and faithful Catholic women were the least suicidal of all. Why? It's not just that Catholics do an effective job on communicating that and why taking one's life is contrary to what God plans for our life. It's also because practicing Catholics, looking at the crucifix and knowing the stories of the martyrs, can grasp more easily than others the redemptive meaning of suffering. Rather than escape, they pick up their cross and seek to follow the Lord to Calvary and through it to the eternal Jerusalem. Practicing Catholics, however, and everyone else in our culture, must do a better job in training others to deal with inevitable setbacks, contradictions, shame and sufferings and pain not merely with medication but with greater maturity and hope.

Over the past several decades, the Church has changed its practice with regard to funerals for those who commit suicide, because we've recognized that the vast majority who take their life don't seem to do so with deliberate and free consent, but are suffering with mental illness, depression, addiction, hopelessness or many other maladies. But the Church and the culture together must work to do more than entrust the suicide victims posthumously to God's mercy and console grieving family members and friends; we must resolve to do all possible to prevent those funerals, by helping those vulnerable to experience hope and mercy in life.

Those who patiently and compassionately help those tempted to commit suicide have traditionally been called Samaritans. And for good reason: They don't ignore but respond to the cries of help for those in the various ditches of life. The question for all of us is: Will Kate Spade's, Anthony Bourdain's, and the 45,000 suicides last year, convince us that we all have an important role in that saving work?

Anchor columnist Father Landry can be contacted at fatherlandry@catholicpreaching.com

-- Fr. David